I’m a very emotional person and this past Veteran’s day I was even more emotional than usual. I had come to the realization that no matter how much I tell myself they are heroes, some of my friends will never be able to live their lives to celebrate their heroism. I have to admit that I dont know what it is that they did while overseas and part of me would like to keep it that way just so I never have to know what hardships they experienced. I would not want to ruin the image I have of them. I can’t even come close to imagine the pain their families and partners go through knowing that they will never get hugs, calls, emails, children, or grandchildren from their loved ones. It’s so hard to think that people I went to school with will not make it to their reunions and impress their class with stories of their heroism, their training, and their travels.
I just feel like we never get to move on from a loss especially one like the one of a deployed soldier. It’s something so unexpected and so distant. I mean I would do anything so that no family had to go through such pain but I’m only one person. I mean if it were up to me we would not be overseas but again I dont know politics and i dont know what it is we are trying to accomplish now. I just know that we have lost so many lives over things that didn’t give us much in return for the precious lives lost. Who knows what would have become of all those who have passed. Guess we should be happy we have others still among us and we should appreciate their presence more and cherish every moment we can with them.
Make sure that the few brave that come home have support, love, attention, and care. Make sure to let them know that they are not alone and that if there is anything they need there is a way to help. There are medical things that can be done, there is love that can be given to them, and time and patience. One never really knows what a small action can do for someone in much need. It could be the difference between life and death for some since there is a great percentage of soldiers who commit suicide. Let’s try to make a difference here and support those we get home.
“A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.”
Joseph Campbell, American scholar and author